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SHS032: The Key To Developing Confidence As A Freelancer In 2026!

Intro

Season 2 of The Side Hustler’s Society is officially underway, and while this season is focused on lead generation, there’s something even more important that needs to be addressed first:

👉 Boldness

Because here’s the reality…

👉 You can have all the leads in the world, but if you’re too afraid to act on them—you won’t make any money.

In this episode, Elijah Bilel breaks down why boldness is the real foundation of success in business, freelancing, and sales.

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Episode Overview

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • What a lead actually is and why it matters

  • Why boldness comes before strategy

  • How fear and rejection hold people back financially

  • The connection between confidence and income

  • The framework for developing boldness in your life

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Side Hustler’s Society Resources

Side Hustle to Full-Time Strategy Session

The Personalized Side Hustle Starter Kit

The Anatomy Of Financial Success Paperback

What Is a Lead (And Why It Doesn’t Matter Without Boldness)

Before diving deeper, Elijah defines a lead as:

👉 A potential customer or prospect for your product or service  

But here’s the key insight:

👉 Leads don’t make you money…
👉 Closing them does

And to close them, you need:

  • Confidence

  • Communication skills

  • The ability to handle rejection

Without boldness, even the best opportunities go to waste.

What Is Boldness?

Boldness is defined as:

👉 Your ability to:

  • Take risks

  • Face fear

  • Handle rejection

  • Act with confidence

It also includes:

👉 Doing what most people are too afraid to do—even when the reward is high  

Why Most People Struggle With Boldness

Most people are conditioned to:

  • Avoid risk

  • Seek comfort

  • Follow structure

Which makes sense…

👉 The system trains people to be employees, not entrepreneurs  

But in business?

👉 You have to step outside your comfort zone.

The Real Reason You Fear Rejection

Elijah breaks it down into three root causes:

  1. Lack of confidence in yourself

  2. Weak communication skills

  3. Insecurity about handling rejection

And here’s a powerful insight:

👉 If you struggle approaching people in life…
👉 You’ll struggle in sales too

There’s a direct connection between:

  • Social confidence

  • Sales ability

  • Financial success

Boldness and Risk-Taking

Boldness isn’t just about talking to people.

It’s about:

👉 Taking action despite uncertainty

Examples include:

  • Reaching out to potential clients

  • Presenting your offer

  • Speaking in public

  • Building something new

And here’s the progression:

👉 1-on-1 conversations → Sales → Public speaking → Leadership

Each level requires more boldness.

The Personality Factor (Why Some People Struggle More)

Based on The Anatomy of Financial Success, different personalities have different levels of boldness.

Higher natural boldness:

  • Sniper

  • King of the Hill

  • Fame Seeker

Lower natural boldness:

  • Builder

  • Conservative

  • Preserver

👉 If you’re in the second group, this is a skill you must actively develop. Find out which one of the side financial personalities you are by our personlize side hustle kit that contains The Financial Personality Report here! 

You Need a Goal to Be Bold

One of the most important points in this episode:

👉 You can’t be bold without direction

Example:

  • If your goal is $100K/year

  • And you know how many clients you need

  • And you have a system to get them

👉 Now your actions have purpose

Without that?

👉 Fear wins every time

The MMA Story (How Boldness Changed Everything)

Elijah shares a powerful personal story about getting into MMA.

At the time, he was told:

👉 He had skill—but was still operating in his comfort zone

So he did something extreme:

👉 He trained in mixed martial arts for 6 months

And the result?

  • Massive confidence boost

  • Increased discipline

  • Higher output and productivity

  • Willingness to take risks

This period led to:

The 3 C’s of Boldness

Elijah introduces a simple but powerful framework:

1. Constitution

Your physical and mental state

👉 Energy, discipline, and resilience

2. Confidence

Your belief in your ability to handle situations

👉 Built through action and experience

3. Charisma

Your ability to connect with people

👉 Critical for sales and communication

It All Starts With Self-Image

At the root of boldness is:

👉 How you see yourself

If you don’t believe you’re capable…

👉 You won’t act

The solution?

👉 Do hard things

Even if they’re unrelated to business.

Because:

👉 Conquering one fear builds confidence across all areas

How to Develop Boldness

Key takeaway:

👉 You don’t “learn” boldness
👉 You build it through action

Examples:

  • Try something that scares you

  • Put yourself in uncomfortable situations

  • Take small risks consistently

  • Build momentum over time

Final Thoughts

Elijah Bilel makes one thing clear:

👉 Boldness is the gateway skill

Without it:

  • You won’t take action

  • You won’t close deals

  • You won’t grow

With it:

👉 Everything else becomes easier

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What to Do When You Run Out of Money as a One-Person Business?

Running your own business can be exciting, empowering, and full of opportunities. But what happens when the money dries up? For many self-employed entrepreneurs, freelancers, and solo business owners, running out of money is one of the biggest fears. The truth is, it’s not a matter of if this will happen—it’s a matter of when. Cash flow challenges are part of the entrepreneurial journey. What separates those who succeed from those who quit is how they handle this situation. Not in the mood to read this? Watch our video below instead!

 



In this article, we’ll explore three practical steps you can take when you run out of money as a one-person business. These steps are designed not just to help you survive but to position you for long-term growth.

 

Looking to find the best type of business to start based on your personality? Consider getting our free financial personality report here. There are 6 personality types that make up the financial world. Each one has their strengths and things they need to work on to ensure success. In addition to this, each personality type has a type of income, way of budgeting and spending money that works best for their emotional strengths. Click here to get your report today!

Step 1: Reduce or Eliminate Unneeded Expenses

The first step when money runs out is to take a hard look at your expenses. Go through every item in your business and personal life and identify what’s truly essential. Ask yourself:

  • Do I really need this subscription, tool, or service right now?

  • Can I downgrade, pause, or cancel it temporarily?

  • Can I find a more affordable alternative that serves the same purpose?

Every dollar you save here is valuable fuel you can reallocate to areas of your business that directly generate income. By cutting unneeded costs, you create breathing room in your cash flow.

Step 2: Invest Excess Cash Flow Into Advertising for High-Margin Products or Services

Once you’ve freed up money by reducing expenses, the next step is to put that cash to work. Instead of letting the savings sit idle, direct it toward advertising your highest-margin products or services. Why? Because high-margin offers give you the best return on investment.

Even a small advertising budget can make a difference when it’s targeted strategically. For example:

  • Run ads promoting a service package that has the best profit margin.

  • Double down on a product you know delivers strong results and customer satisfaction.

  • Test ad platforms where your ideal clients are most active.

This reinvestment turns your cost-cutting into a revenue-generating engine, helping you pull out of the money crunch faster.

Step 3: Book a Consultation With an Industry Expert

The third step is often overlooked but incredibly powerful—seeking guidance. When you’re low on funds, the last thing you may want to do is spend money on a consultation. But the right expert can save you time, prevent costly mistakes, and provide clarity on how to move forward.

An industry expert can help you:

  • Identify overlooked opportunities for growth.

  • Spot weaknesses in your current strategy.

  • Offer proven methods that accelerate results.

Think of this not as another expense but as an investment into your business’s future. The insights you gain could be worth far more than the consultation fee.

Summary: Three Steps to Take When You Run Out of Money

Running out of money doesn’t have to mean the end of your business. Instead, see it as a turning point. By following these three steps, you can transform a challenge into an opportunity:

  1. Reduce or eliminate unneeded expenses to free up cash flow.

  2. Invest the savings into advertising your highest-margin products or services to generate revenue.

  3. Book a consultation with an industry expert to gain clarity, avoid mistakes, and accelerate growth.

These actions not only help you weather the immediate storm but also set your business up for long-term resilience and profitability.

Final Thoughts

Running out of money as a one-person business isn’t the end—it’s part of the entrepreneurial process. Every successful business owner has faced this situation, and many have come out stronger because of it. The key is to act decisively, invest wisely, and seek guidance when you need it most.

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SHS031: 5 Books Every Freelancer Must Read Before Going Full-Time (Lead Generation Season Kickoff)

Intro

Season 2 of The Side Hustler’s Society is officially here—and this time, we’re focusing on one of the most important skills for anyone who wants to be self-employed:

👉 Lead generation.

Because the truth is…

👉 You can have the best skill in the world, but if you don’t know how to get clients, it doesn’t matter.

In this episode, Elijah Bilel kicks off the season by breaking down 5 powerful books that will give you the mindset, strategy, and foundation needed to succeed as a freelancer or business owner.

Episode Overview

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • The difference between gig work and true self-employment

  • Why lead generation is the most important skill you can learn

  • 5 must-read books for freelancers and entrepreneurs

  • How to think strategically about business and marketing

  • Why understanding yourself is key to financial success

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The 5 Books You Need to Read

1. Before You Quit Your Job – Robert Kiyosaki

Robert Kiyosaki

This book is a powerful introduction to what it actually takes to build a business.

Instead of just motivating you to quit your job, it prepares you for:

  • The reality of entrepreneurship

  • The ups and downs of building a business

  • The mindset required to succeed long-term

Elijah highlights that this book is heavy on conceptual thinking, which is critical if you want to move from employee to business owner  

👉 It walks through building, failing, rebuilding, and eventually scaling a business

👉 Perfect for anyone thinking about going full-time

 Click here to get the book

2. The 100 Absolutely Unbreakable Laws of Business Success – Brian Tracy

Brian Tracy

This book serves as a foundation for how business actually works.

Elijah explains that these laws became a guiding framework for his own journey  

What makes this book powerful:

  • Everything in business ties back to these laws

  • Helps you make better decisions

  • Gives you a mental framework for success

👉 It’s not just a one-time read—it’s a reference guide you come back to

👉 Best used as both a reading AND study tool

 Click here to get the book

3. The One Page Marketing Plan – Allan Dib

Allan Dib

This is one of the most important books for freelancers who struggle with:

👉 Getting clients

Elijah calls this book:

👉 Underrated—but extremely powerful  

Why it stands out:

  • Focuses on strategy, not just tactics

  • Covers multiple ways to market your business

  • Helps you build a complete marketing system

Key insight from the episode:

👉 Tactics don’t work without strategy

This book teaches you:

  • How to build that strategy

  • How to align your marketing with your goals

  • How to stand out in a crowded market

 Click here to get the book

4. Click: 10 Truths for Building Extraordinary Relationships – George Fraser

George Fraser

This is one of the most important books for:

👉 Networking and relationship building

Elijah emphasizes that many people misunderstand networking as:

❌ Fake
❌ Self-serving
❌ Transactional

But this book flips that perspective:

👉 Networking should be genuine and mutually beneficial  

What you’ll learn:

  • How to build real relationships

  • How to create win-win situations

  • How to develop a strong business network

👉 This is especially important for freelancers who rely on referrals and connections

⚠️ Note: This book does not have an audiobook, so you’ll need to read it physically

 Click here to get the book

5. The Anatomy of Financial Success – Elijah Bilel

The Anatomy of Financial Success

This book introduces one of Elijah’s core frameworks:

👉 Financial Personalities

Unlike most finance books, this one focuses on:

👉 Understanding yourself first

Because:

👉 Personal finance is personal

The book breaks down:

  • 6 financial personality types

  • Strengths and weaknesses of each

  • How to align your income strategy with who you are

Elijah explains that success comes from:

👉 Building around your strengths
👉 Managing your weaknesses

This becomes especially powerful when applied to:

  • Business

  • Lead generation

  • Income strategies

 Click here to get the book

Why These Books Matter for Freelancers

If you’re trying to go full-time…

You need more than just a skill.

You need:

  • The right mindset

  • A strong foundation

  • A clear strategy

  • The ability to get clients

These books give you:

👉 The complete blueprint

Bonus: Must-Watch Episode Before This Season

Before diving into Season 2, Elijah strongly recommends revisiting:

👉 Episode 5: 10 Tips Needed to Succeed as a Freelancer

This episode provides:

  • Foundational principles

  • Core freelance strategies

  • A setup for everything in this season

What to Expect in Season 2

Season 2 will focus on:

👉 Lead Generation for Freelancers and Business Owners

You’ll learn:

  • How to consistently get clients

  • How to market your services

  • How to build a sustainable business

Final Thoughts

Elijah Bilel closes this episode by emphasizing:

👉 This is just the beginning

If you take the time to study these books…

👉 You’ll be ahead of most people trying to go full-time

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10 Items You NEED To Make The Most Out Of Vidsummit 2026!

If you're planning to attend VidSummit 2026, you probably already know that getting the most out of the conference involves more than simply showing up and attending a few sessions.

I've attended VidSummit multiple times, and over the years I've learned that having the right things with you can make a big difference. Whether you're trying to network, create content, meet other creators, or simply make your experience easier, a little preparation can go a long way.

Here are 10 things I recommend bringing to VidSummit 2026 if you want to get the most out of your experience.



1. Kimunity Solution’s Question & Perspective Cards

One of the biggest opportunities at VidSummit is meeting other creators and having conversations with people you may not normally have access to.

That's why I recommend buy KimUnity Solution’s question or perspective cards.

The idea is simple: have a few interesting questions, conversation starters, or topics prepared ahead of time that you can use when meeting someone new. This can make networking much easier, especially if you're someone who doesn't naturally know what to say when approaching a stranger.




Instead of walking up to someone and asking the usual "What do you do?", you can start a more meaningful conversation.

You don't necessarily need professionally printed cards. You can write questions down on index cards or keep them on your phone. The important thing is to have some conversation starters ready so you aren't trying to come up with something on the spot. Click here to buy them today!

2. A Portable Phone Charger



Your phone is going to be extremely important at VidSummit.

You'll likely use it to communicate with people, exchange contact information, take pictures, record videos, check the conference schedule, use social media, and potentially create content.

The problem is that doing all of that can drain your battery quickly.

That's why a portable phone charger or power bank is one of the simplest things you can bring.

You don't want to find yourself in the middle of an important networking conversation or trying to record something only to realize your phone is about to die. A portable charger gives you the freedom to stay mobile without constantly looking for an outlet. You can get one here.

3. A Notepad and Pencil

Even though most of us use our phones and computers to take notes, I still recommend bringing a traditional notepad and pencil.

VidSummit can provide you with a lot of information in a relatively short amount of time. You may hear an idea during a presentation, have an important conversation with another creator, or think of something you want to implement when you get home.

Having a physical notebook gives you somewhere to quickly write those things down.

It can also be useful during networking. If someone gives you an idea, recommendation, or piece of information that you don't want to forget, you can write it down immediately.

You don't need anything fancy. A simple notebook works.

4. A Backpack

You're probably going to accumulate things throughout the conference.

You may receive promotional materials, business cards, merchandise, brochures, or other items from sponsors and exhibitors. You may also want to carry your own equipment and personal belongings.

That's why bringing a backpack or another comfortable bag is a good idea.

It gives you somewhere to keep all of those things without having to carry everything in your hands.

Just make sure whatever bag you bring is comfortable enough to wear for extended periods of time.

5. A Portable Microphone

If you're planning on creating content at VidSummit, consider bringing a portable microphone.

VidSummit puts you in a unique environment where you can potentially interview creators, speakers, entrepreneurs, and other interesting people.

You don't necessarily need a complicated production setup. A small microphone that connects to your phone can significantly improve the audio quality of interviews and other videos you record at the conference.

This can also give you an opportunity to create content that you wouldn't normally be able to make.

Instead of simply attending VidSummit, you can document your experience and use the people you meet as part of your content. Click here to get one.

6. A Phone Holder

If you're creating content at VidSummit, a phone holder or small tripod can also be extremely useful.

It allows you to set your phone up to record yourself without needing another person to hold the camera.

This can be helpful when you're:

  • Recording yourself talking about the conference

  • Creating social media content

  • Recording interviews

  • Taking group pictures or videos

  • Documenting your experience

A small phone tripod doesn't take up much room, but it can give you considerably more flexibility when you're trying to create content. You can see multiple ones here

7. A QR Code

This is one of the more strategic items on the list.

If you have a business, website, newsletter, social media account, YouTube channel, podcast, or another project that you want people to check out, consider having a QR code that takes people directly to it.

Networking often involves exchanging information quickly. Instead of trying to spell out a website or asking someone to search for you later, you can simply let them scan your QR code.

You could have a QR code that leads to your website, a landing page containing all of your important links, your social media profiles, or wherever you want people to go. Its up to you what you use for this but I personally use Genius link

The key is to make it as easy as possible for someone you meet to stay connected with you after the conference.

8. Conference Crushing

You should also consider bringing Conference Crushing.

Conference Crushing is a resource designed to help you get more out of networking and meeting people at conferences.

VidSummit is filled with opportunities to meet creators, entrepreneurs, speakers, and other professionals. But simply being surrounded by people doesn't automatically mean you're going to build meaningful relationships.

Having a strategy for approaching people, starting conversations, and following up can make a major difference.

If networking is one of your primary reasons for attending VidSummit, having a resource like Conference Crushing can help you be more intentional about how you spend your time. You can grab a copy of the book here.

9. Water

This may seem obvious, but bring water.

You're going to be walking around, talking to people, attending sessions, and potentially spending a long time on your feet.

It's easy to get caught up in everything happening at the conference and forget something as basic as staying hydrated.

Having a reusable water bottle with you can help make sure you always have something to drink without constantly having to stop what you're doing.

10. Merch

Finally, consider bringing merchandise for your own brand.

If you have a business, YouTube channel, podcast, or other brand, VidSummit can be a great place to get your brand in front of other people.

That could mean wearing a shirt with your logo, bringing stickers, business cards, or another type of branded item.

The goal isn't necessarily to walk around handing things to everyone you see. Instead, merchandise can naturally become part of a conversation and give someone another way to remember you after the conference.

If someone you've just met asks about your shirt or sticker, you've now got an easy conversation starter.

Bonus: An External Hard Drive

There's one more item I recommend bringing if you're serious about creating content at VidSummit: an external hard drive.

If you're going to record a lot of video during the conference, you're potentially going to create a large amount of footage.

Having an external drive gives you somewhere to back up that footage and free up space on your computer or other devices.

The last thing you want is to return home with hours of potentially valuable footage and realize that you don't have enough storage space to properly manage it. The one I use is here

Final Thoughts

VidSummit can be much more than a conference where you sit in a room and watch presentations.

For me, a major part of the value comes from the people you meet, the conversations you have, the relationships you build, and the content and ideas you take home with you.

That's why preparation matters.

Having a portable charger can keep your phone running. A notebook can help you capture ideas. A microphone and phone holder can help you create content. A QR code can make it easier to exchange information. And having a strategy for networking can help you turn brief conversations into meaningful relationships.

You don't necessarily need to bring every item on this list. Think about what you're hoping to accomplish at VidSummit and choose the things that will help you accomplish those goals.

The most important thing is to show up prepared to participate, connect, and take advantage of the opportunities around you.

If you're attending VidSummit 2026, preparation can help ensure that you don't simply attend the conference—you actually get something valuable out of it.

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SHS030: VidSummit Review 2024: Was It Yay Or Nay?

Intro

What is VidSummit actually like?

Is it worth going?

And more importantly…

👉 Can it actually change your trajectory as a content creator?

In this bonus panel episode, Elijah Bilel brings together a group of creators to break down their real experiences at VidSummit 2024—from networking and opportunities to what most people get wrong when attending events like this.

Going to this year's vidsummit? Click here to get your ticket and be part of Elijah's vidsummit crew during the event!

Panel Cast

Host:

  • Elijah Bilel – Founder of The Side Hustler’s Society

Panelists:

  • Gregory Rutledge – Creator behind Question Everything
    👉 Check out his YouTube channel here 

  • Dejion – Sound Engineer & Creative
    👉 Connect with him on Instagram here 

  • Yuly Torres – Creator behind Engineer Your Fleet
    👉 Check out her YouTube channel here 

  • Kelly Harada – Creator behind My Love Letter To Books
    👉 Check out her YouTube channel here 

  • David Gaines – Creator behind Applied Ascension
    👉 Check out his YouTube channel here 

Episode Overview

In this panel discussion, we break down:

  • What VidSummit is really like behind the scenes

  • Why networking is more valuable than the presentations

  • The unexpected opportunities that come from showing up

  • How content can influence people in ways you don’t see

  • The importance of owning your audience (email lists, platforms, etc.)

  • What creators should do differently when attending events

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The Power of Content (Real Proof from VidSummit)

One of the most impactful moments from this episode comes directly from Elijah’s experience at the event.

👉 People recognized him from his VidSummit video

👉 And showed up because of it

As shared in the episode, someone literally watched his video multiple times—and even had it sent to them again by a friend before attending  

The Bigger Lesson

👉 You don’t always see the impact of your content

But that doesn’t mean it’s not happening

Key Takeaway

Content can:

  • Influence decisions

  • Bring people into rooms

  • Create opportunities before you even arrive

Why VidSummit Is Really About Networking

While VidSummit is known for its presentations…

The panel reinforces something important:

👉 The REAL value is in the hallways

Elijah’s Strategy

Elijah Bilel intentionally spent most of his time:

  • Networking

  • Having conversations

  • Building relationships

The Result

  • Multiple podcast guests secured

  • New business opportunities

  • Sponsorship conversations

Key Insight

👉 Events don’t pay off because you attend

👉 They pay off because of how you show up

The Hidden Opportunity Most Creators Miss

A major theme throughout the discussion:

👉 Most creators attend events passively

What That Looks Like

  • Sitting in sessions all day

  • Not talking to people

  • Not building relationships

What Actually Works

  • Being intentional

  • Starting conversations

  • Following up

Because at the end of the day

👉 Relationships = opportunities

Owning Your Audience (A Critical Lesson)

Another key takeaway from the episode:

👉 You don’t own your audience on platforms

Why This Matters

If something happens to:

  • Your YouTube channel

  • Your social media

👉 You lose access instantly

The Solution

👉 Build an email list

👉 Own the relationship

If you’re serious about building a sustainable content business and learning how to grow, monetize, and protect your platform long-term, you can join Roberto Blake's Awesome Creator Academy Here . Elijah has been a member for years and the system he uses to launch ad sustain all of his youtube channels, he learned in this academy





Pros of VidSummit (From the Discussion)

Across the panel, several benefits stood out:

1. Networking Opportunities

  • High-level creators in one place

  • Easy access to conversations

  • Organic collaboration potential

2. Business Opportunities

  • Sponsorships

  • Partnerships

  • Client relationships

3. Exposure

  • People recognizing your content

  • Building credibility in real life

Cons of VidSummit

The panel also highlights a few drawbacks:

1. Scheduling Conflicts

👉 You often have to choose between:

  • Networking

  • Presentations

2. Limited Time

  • Not enough breaks for networking

  • Packed schedule

3. Missing Key Creators

Some expected creators weren’t present, which can impact:

  • Networking expectations

  • Value perception

The Biggest Takeaway from This Panel

If there’s one thing this episode makes clear:

👉 Content + proximity = opportunity

Breakdown

  • Content gets you recognized

  • Proximity turns that recognition into opportunity

And When You Combine Both

👉 That’s where real growth happens

Why You Should Be Creating Content (Even If You’re Hesitant)

This episode reinforces something critical:

👉 You never know who’s watching

And More Importantly

👉 You don’t know how your content is influencing decisions

So Instead of Waiting

👉 Hit record

👉 Share your thoughts

👉 Build your presence

If you want to take your content seriously and learn how to turn it into real income, opportunities, and long-term growth, you can get access to the Awesome Creator Academy that Elijah is a part o by clicking Here .

Final Thoughts

This panel highlights a powerful reality:

👉 Events like VidSummit are multipliers

But Only If You Use Them Right

  • Talk to people

  • Build relationships

  • Create content consistently

Because at the end of the day

👉 Opportunities don’t come from watching

👉 They come from participating


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SHS029: How To Maximize Your Productivity & Avoid Burnout As A Freelancer with Alexis Haselberger

Intro

One of the biggest mistakes people make when leaving a 9–5…

👉 Is thinking they no longer need structure.

But the reality is:

👉 Structure doesn’t disappear… it becomes your responsibility.

In this episode of The Side Hustler’s Society, Elijah Bilel dives into one of the most overlooked skills in entrepreneurship:

👉 Time management and productivity.

Because without it, even the most motivated people can burn out or feel like they’re working all day—but getting nowhere.


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Intro to Alexis Haselberger

  • Time management and productivity coach helping people “do more and stress less”  

  • Has taught thousands of individuals how to take control of their time

  • Works with major companies including Google, Lyft, Workday, Capital One, and Upwork  

  • Specializes in helping high-achievers avoid burnout while maintaining productivity

  • Background in startups, operations, HR, and business systems

👉 Check out Alexis Haselberger’s YouTube channel: Here 
👉 Visit her website: https://www.alexishaselberger.com/ 

Episode Overview

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Why entrepreneurs struggle with time management

  • The biggest productivity mistakes freelancers make

  • How to avoid burnout while building a business

  • Why “being busy” isn’t the same as being productive

  • How to prioritize what actually matters

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Quick Takeaways

  • Elijah Bilel highlights the importance of structure in self-employment

  • Alexis Haselberger explains why most people overload themselves with tasks

  • Productivity is about priorities—not just effort

  • Boundary setting is critical for freelancers

  • Systems help reduce overwhelm and increase output

Why Time Management Becomes Harder After Leaving a Job

When you work a traditional job:

  • Your schedule is structured

  • Your tasks are defined

  • Your expectations are clear

But once you become self-employed…

👉 You lose all of that structure

And if you don’t replace it:

👉 Things start to fall apart

As Alexis explains, many people assume freedom = no structure…

👉 But that leads to chaos instead of results  

The “Busy But Not Productive” Trap

One of the biggest problems entrepreneurs face:

👉 Feeling busy… but not making progress

This shows up as:

  • Answering emails all day

  • Jumping between tasks

  • Never finishing important work

By the end of the day:

👉 You worked… but didn’t move forward

The #1 Mistake: Doing Too Much

According to Alexis Haselberger, the biggest issue is simple:

👉 People try to do everything

  • Long to-do lists

  • Too many goals

  • No clear priorities

The reality?

👉 You can’t do everything at once

Even if you worked:

👉 18 hours a day

You’d still have more to do  

Why Prioritization Is Everything

Instead of trying to do everything:

👉 Focus on what matters most

This means:

  • Choosing what to work on now

  • Delaying what isn’t urgent

  • Letting go of unnecessary tasks

👉 Progress comes from focus—not volume

The Hidden Problem: No System

Another major issue Alexis highlights:

👉 People keep everything in their head

Which leads to:

  • Stress

  • Forgetting tasks

  • Mental overload

Instead, you need:

👉 An external system

Whether that’s:

  • A task app

  • A planner

  • A structured workflow

Elijah’s Real-World Experience

Elijah Bilel connects this to real life:

👉 When you’re self-employed, people assume you’re always available

This creates problems like:

  • Constant interruptions

  • Random calls

  • Time being taken without structure

To fix this, Elijah:

👉 Created boundaries

Even turning his time into:

👉 A paid consultation offer

Which:

  • Reduced unnecessary calls

  • Attracted serious people

  • Increased income

The Importance of Boundaries

Alexis reinforces this point:

👉 Without boundaries, you burn out

Many freelancers feel like they must:

  • Be available 24/7

  • Overdeliver constantly

  • Say yes to everything

But that leads to:

❌ Stress
❌ Exhaustion
❌ Lower performance

The Solution: Build Structure on Purpose

The biggest takeaway:

👉 You must create your own structure

This includes:

  • Defined work hours

  • Clear priorities

  • Task systems

  • Boundaries with clients

How to Start Improving Your Productivity

1. Get Everything Out of Your Head

Use a system to track tasks

2. Prioritize Ruthlessly

Not everything matters equally

3. Limit Your Focus

Too many tasks = no progress

4. Set Boundaries Early

Train people how to work with you

5. Think Long-Term

Sustainability beats burnout

Who This Episode Is For

  • Freelancers

  • Self-employed individuals

  • Side hustlers going full-time

  • Anyone struggling with productivity

Key Topics Covered

  • Alexis Haselberger’s productivity strategies

  • Insights from Elijah Bilel

  • Time management for entrepreneurs

  • Avoiding burnout

  • Prioritization and systems


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